What is he only talks to me when he wants to?

This behavior is often seen in individuals who are only interested in their own needs and desires. They may only reach out to someone when they need something, such as help, attention, or validation. This type of behavior can be hurtful and damaging to relationships as the other person may feel used or not valued.

It is important to establish boundaries and communicate openly with individuals who only talk to you when they want something. This can involve saying no to their requests or setting limits on when and how often you can be available to them. Additionally, seeking out supportive friends and family who value and appreciate you can help improve your self-esteem and reduce the impact of negative relationships.